"Last night my husband and I attended Knocking Down Silos in Richmond Hill. In fact, several people I know were there and it was great to see everyone. I registered to attend a while back and had been very intrigued about what was going to happen there. I mean, I've worked in career services for a good length of time now and we talk about networking – the dos and don’ts - incessantly. After all, it is proven to be one of the best methods (combined with other actions) of securing employment and building business. Yet this event was not marketed as a "networking event" per se, even though it seems most people attend (and some apparently repeatedly) to do just that: network. I kept thinking, "What could Dave possibly say that is any different than I already know??"
As it turned out, it wasn't so much that I learned new information per se. The event presented an opportunity to move important and desirable behaviours up to the forefront, and it also really made me think about diminishing negative behviours. Dave talks about "gears" and outlines the difference between 1st, second and third gear from a behavioural perspective. I realized that I have been stuck in 2nd gear for a while now. And being stuck there, over time, has cluttered my brain and my soul to the point of exhaustion. So here are my takeaways from last night's event:
- Stop worrying about other people’s actions and don’t let it drag you down.
If it doesn’t directly affect you, leave it be and move on - Anyone you meet anywhere can be a valuable resource to you. You simply need to be open and receptive to everyone you come in contact with, find common ground, and let it progress. Yes, people are pretty darn amazing.
- I met a woman named Angela last night who is a singer in a rock band in her
spare time. I love rock and I love to sing (in the privacy of my own home or car, of course!) so I found what she does veryadmirable. I think I’ll get on my
karaoke machine tonight!"
Tickets are $80 each. If you would like to receive a 50% off code and attend this event for only $40, please email Lydia Fernandes at info(at)motivmode.com and write "June RHB" in the subject line.